My best friend dating my ex boyfriend
Thirdly, yet without intending to come across as territorial in a caveman-defecating-on-his-patch-of-land sort of way, that person was with you and was part of your life.They were someone who significantly contributed to shaping the person you are today.Just because they did it in Friends, it doesn’t mean it’s OK in real life, guys.Where relationships are concerned, going out with one of your mates’ ex partners is, whichever way you look at it, wrong.For me, the whole ‘follow your heart’ or ‘the heart wants what the heart wants’ cliches should be thrown out the window here.Consider what it would feel like if the roles were reversed.
You’re dating this awesome guy and you’re happy and in love. You spend a lot of time ranting about her to anyone who will listen, you don’t care if they don’t want to hear it. For some reason, your ex-BFF gets mad at YOU for talking about her so much. When you run into them anywhere, you want to run the other way.Oh, and in case you’re still in TV fantasyland, the fallout isn’t going to be resolved by spending Thanksgiving in a box, a la Joey and Chandler.When I was a sophomore in high school, my best friend started dating my ex behind m back (while I was on vacation! The situation was a total mess – we got into a huge fight, I lost my best friend forever and it set the stage for a ton of fun insecurities and trust issues.If it’s never happened to you, let me first say you’re lucky and then let me say that it absolutely sucks.Being betrayed by two people you care about has to be one of the worst feelings ever, especially when things are done in an underhanded and sneaky way.